before marriage is one topic that has raised so much dust. Some school of thought are of the view that Sex before marriage is No No, while to some since the two adults have given their consent to marry, why wait? Let's have Sex, different positions and styles, doing all the things married couples do its no big deal. This topic has generated a lot of controversies even amongst the religious circle.
However, God's stand on this topic He made very Clear. SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN. The marriage Bed should be kept Holy and undefiled. Heb 13v4. For God to say No Sex before marriage, then there must be whole lots of reasons He said so after all, he invented the organs used in having Sex as well as put the urge in man.
In God's dictionary : Sex doesn't equal love, yet it is often mistaken for Love. Though the excitement of the physical relationship is intoxicating, real Love extends far beyond Sex. The
implications of engaging in Sex before marriage are so much that they can't be quantified.
The physical, psychological, emotional pains and trauma. Take for example :A Young lady, who because she believes that she's engage to a guy, and they go ahead to have Sex., though there are preparations on the way to get married only for the one whom she's betrothed to turn around and say his no longer interested in going ahead with the marriage proposal., what do you think will be her emotional state? I leave you to imagine and conclude.
The main reason why am writing on this topic is because of the latest Trends on the issue of Child Paternity. So the other day I saw a write up with the topic : Help My Wife Just Confessed To Me That Our Only Son is not My child. I also heard another story where The couple have 5 children, one of them became sick, after the diagnosis of what is wrong with t
he child, it was concluded that the said child needs blood transfusion. When it was time to give blood the man realised the child who he has been training and calling his own, is not even his, but that of another man. The pain and the trauma was too much for the man to bear, he nearly had stroke. I know some women cheat even in their matrimonial homes, but my main concern here, are those cases where by the lady is already pregnant even before she gets married. And she comfortably pass it on to her husband to be, who cannot dispute it because in most cases they are already having Sex., therefore if and when the lady tells him she's pregnant he has no choice than to accept.
So I ask again is Sex Before Marriage really worth all the drama it eventually leads to? So I get it the excuses, you're human with blood flowing in your veins and not water I heard., but then at the end can you really say it was worth it? This brings me to a similar case In The Holy Bible. Matthew 1 very 18-20 :
Bro Joseph and Sis Mary were betrothed to be married, before the date of the marriage, Bro Joseph discovered that Sis Mary is pregnant. The Bible tells us that being a just man, Bro Joseph not wanting to disgrace Sis Mary in public, thought of how to break the engagement secretly. God who knew that Sis Mary didn't mess up her self, sent an Angel to Bro Joseph to tell him why she's with a child. What is my point exactly you are asking right? Well the point am driving at here, is that Bro Joseph was bold enough to want to break up the engagement with Sis Mary because he knew from his heart of heart, that He/ Sis Mary have never had Sex. Therefore, if she's pregnant is not his child.
The reason why the two examples I shared above could go undectated is because the couples have been engaging in premarital Sex. When the lady sleep with another man, get pregnant, pass it on to her husband to be as his own, the man can not dispute or start asking questions. Many men today end up training other mens children as their own till they die. Hmmmm
I leave you with this: wether you're single, courting or In courtship, engaged to be married today, tomorrow or 6 months time and you are tempted or the urge to have Sex come up hmmm before you pull of those pants my lady, and before you unzip your trouser to pull of your boxers Mr... Ask your self sincerely in your Heart Is It Worth It?.
Your Comments Mean a lot to us.
before marriage is one topic that has raised so much dust. Some school of thought are of the view that Sex before marriage is No No, while to some since the two adults have given their consent to marry, why wait? Let's have Sex, different positions and styles, doing all the things married couples do its no big deal. This topic has generated a lot of controversies even amongst the religious circle.
However, God's stand on this topic He made very Clear. SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN. The marriage Bed should be kept Holy and undefiled. Heb 13v4. For God to say No Sex before marriage, then there must be whole lots of reasons He said so after all, he invented the organs used in having Sex as well as put the urge in man.
In God's dictionary : Sex doesn't equal love, yet it is often mistaken for Love. Though the excitement of the physical relationship is intoxicating, real Love extends far beyond Sex. The
implications of engaging in Sex before marriage are so much that they can't be quantified.
However, God's stand on this topic He made very Clear. SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN. The marriage Bed should be kept Holy and undefiled. Heb 13v4. For God to say No Sex before marriage, then there must be whole lots of reasons He said so after all, he invented the organs used in having Sex as well as put the urge in man.
In God's dictionary : Sex doesn't equal love, yet it is often mistaken for Love. Though the excitement of the physical relationship is intoxicating, real Love extends far beyond Sex. The
implications of engaging in Sex before marriage are so much that they can't be quantified.
The physical, psychological, emotional pains and trauma. Take for example :A Young lady, who because she believes that she's engage to a guy, and they go ahead to have Sex., though there are preparations on the way to get married only for the one whom she's betrothed to turn around and say his no longer interested in going ahead with the marriage proposal., what do you think will be her emotional state? I leave you to imagine and conclude.
The main reason why am writing on this topic is because of the latest Trends on the issue of Child Paternity. So the other day I saw a write up with the topic : Help My Wife Just Confessed To Me That Our Only Son is not My child. I also heard another story where The couple have 5 children, one of them became sick, after the diagnosis of what is wrong with t
he child, it was concluded that the said child needs blood transfusion. When it was time to give blood the man realised the child who he has been training and calling his own, is not even his, but that of another man. The pain and the trauma was too much for the man to bear, he nearly had stroke. I know some women cheat even in their matrimonial homes, but my main concern here, are those cases where by the lady is already pregnant even before she gets married. And she comfortably pass it on to her husband to be, who cannot dispute it because in most cases they are already having Sex., therefore if and when the lady tells him she's pregnant he has no choice than to accept.
The main reason why am writing on this topic is because of the latest Trends on the issue of Child Paternity. So the other day I saw a write up with the topic : Help My Wife Just Confessed To Me That Our Only Son is not My child. I also heard another story where The couple have 5 children, one of them became sick, after the diagnosis of what is wrong with t
he child, it was concluded that the said child needs blood transfusion. When it was time to give blood the man realised the child who he has been training and calling his own, is not even his, but that of another man. The pain and the trauma was too much for the man to bear, he nearly had stroke. I know some women cheat even in their matrimonial homes, but my main concern here, are those cases where by the lady is already pregnant even before she gets married. And she comfortably pass it on to her husband to be, who cannot dispute it because in most cases they are already having Sex., therefore if and when the lady tells him she's pregnant he has no choice than to accept.
So I ask again is Sex Before Marriage really worth all the drama it eventually leads to? So I get it the excuses, you're human with blood flowing in your veins and not water I heard., but then at the end can you really say it was worth it? This brings me to a similar case In The Holy Bible. Matthew 1 very 18-20 :
Bro Joseph and Sis Mary were betrothed to be married, before the date of the marriage, Bro Joseph discovered that Sis Mary is pregnant. The Bible tells us that being a just man, Bro Joseph not wanting to disgrace Sis Mary in public, thought of how to break the engagement secretly. God who knew that Sis Mary didn't mess up her self, sent an Angel to Bro Joseph to tell him why she's with a child. What is my point exactly you are asking right? Well the point am driving at here, is that Bro Joseph was bold enough to want to break up the engagement with Sis Mary because he knew from his heart of heart, that He/ Sis Mary have never had Sex. Therefore, if she's pregnant is not his child.
The reason why the two examples I shared above could go undectated is because the couples have been engaging in premarital Sex. When the lady sleep with another man, get pregnant, pass it on to her husband to be as his own, the man can not dispute or start asking questions. Many men today end up training other mens children as their own till they die. Hmmmm
I leave you with this: wether you're single, courting or In courtship, engaged to be married today, tomorrow or 6 months time and you are tempted or the urge to have Sex come up hmmm before you pull of those pants my lady, and before you unzip your trouser to pull of your boxers Mr... Ask your self sincerely in your Heart Is It Worth It?.
Bro Joseph and Sis Mary were betrothed to be married, before the date of the marriage, Bro Joseph discovered that Sis Mary is pregnant. The Bible tells us that being a just man, Bro Joseph not wanting to disgrace Sis Mary in public, thought of how to break the engagement secretly. God who knew that Sis Mary didn't mess up her self, sent an Angel to Bro Joseph to tell him why she's with a child. What is my point exactly you are asking right? Well the point am driving at here, is that Bro Joseph was bold enough to want to break up the engagement with Sis Mary because he knew from his heart of heart, that He/ Sis Mary have never had Sex. Therefore, if she's pregnant is not his child.
The reason why the two examples I shared above could go undectated is because the couples have been engaging in premarital Sex. When the lady sleep with another man, get pregnant, pass it on to her husband to be as his own, the man can not dispute or start asking questions. Many men today end up training other mens children as their own till they die. Hmmmm
I leave you with this: wether you're single, courting or In courtship, engaged to be married today, tomorrow or 6 months time and you are tempted or the urge to have Sex come up hmmm before you pull of those pants my lady, and before you unzip your trouser to pull of your boxers Mr... Ask your self sincerely in your Heart Is It Worth It?.
Your Comments Mean a lot to us.
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