Why Celibacy Before marriage Is A Great Idea

Sex before marriage may seem like the new cool but premarital celibacy still has great merits.
The traditional/religious view that lovers should keep their hands off each other may no longer apply to many relationships these days; and this is because more young people are confidently exploring their sexuality and getting in tune with that part of themselves and that is just fine for those who choose to roll that way.

While that may be a thing, it is also still OK to crave celibacy before marriage and if that is

5 Characteristics Of A Controlling Man

Do you know that a man who is caring and dedicated? Watch out! Men do not always show their true personality at the beginning of the relationship.

Some men who show these qualities early in the relationship after a few months may begin to give clues that they want to have control of each step of yours. However, not every woman knows how to identify a controlling man.

Most controlling men are overly jealous and criticize the partner’s friendships, and even interfere with their decisions. Have you ever had or have a boyfriend or husband driver? Next,

Before You Repeat The Same Mistakes Again

He was driving very fast because he was running late for his night job. He got there on time but after clocking in, he realized he was not on the schedule to work that night. He had mixed feelings driving back home. He was happy because he will sleep in his bed that night and he was sad because he wasted his time driving one hour from the first job to the second job only to realized he wasn't gonna work.

It was a bit after midnight when he got home. He quietly opened the front door and tiptoed his

Dealing With The Pain Of Failed Marriage

Failed marriage doesn't mean a failed life. Never allow a broken relationship to break your life. Not everybody plan to get into a marriage that will end up in divorce. But when love turns to misery and it's demanding for dear life, people look for the nearest exit. Sometimes we ignorantly leave someone who has 70% of what we need and go to someone who has 30% of what we want. What you need is more important than what you want. Marriage is never a bed of roses, conflicts are inevitable between husband and wife. There is no such thing as a

10 TOP WRONG REASONS PEOPLE GET MARRIED

Why people get married for the wrong reasons

Every weekend is always locked up with wedding ceremonies. It took me time to know the difference between wedding and marriage while growing up, I used to think it meant the same. Am sure someone out there doesn’t know too.
Wedding is a one day event to tie the marriage knots. Marriage is forever, like for real, its forever till death do apart (in the olden days though). These days, divorce is more celebrated than marriage. Hardly do we see the media talk about 25years in marriage and the likes but they are quick to mention and celebrate divorce.

By the way, People get married for wrong reasons and are soon out of it in minutes. People tend to like themselves so much and the next thing, they are marking the wedding date and

Ways To Keep The Fire Of Love Burning In Marriage

To sustain love in relationship and marriage, certain ingredients matters a lot. Their absence will spell doom on the relationship while their presence will help to solidify the relationship. Suzanne Phillips break this down in her article on http:blogs.psychcentral.com and these is what I shared below:

 Looking at Each Other

It is likely that when you first met your partner, you glanced into each other’s eyes as much as you could and in many aspects of your connection. In a culture that demands watching the road, watching the screen, the phone, the parallel chores or the kids, that mutual gaze becomes more difficult with the years.

It is worth re-setting.

When couples look into each other’s eyes when they say hello or good-bye each day, when they are having that quick cup of coffee in the morning, when they are exchanging bags or kids on the soccer field, they affirm an intimate connection. After all, you don’t just gaze into

If You Answer "Yes" To These 9 Questions, Then You Are Ready For Marriage

Do you think that you have finally found your another half? Are you sure that you are ready to build a family? Before taking such a fateful decision, take a look at the list of questions that was created by a woman who has been married for 25 years. If you answer all of them honestly, it will be easier for you to make the correct choice.

1. Have your relations passed the stage when you have spent all your free time in bed with your beloved partner?
This is wonderful, if this is so, because the Hollywood movies and real life are not the same. You have to love this person despite your bed affairs, or your future family life will quickly ruin.

Five Ways Some Ladies are Destroying their Marriage Without Knowing...Take No.2 Serious

1. Living outside of what you can afford
A wise old woman from my church congregation once advised: “The best thing you can do as a wife is to live within your husband’s means.”
Wives, show sincere appreciation and respect to your husband by carefully following a budget and making the most of what you have. Be wise about your finances.
Constantly complaining about not having enough to fulfill your lavish desires or racking up astronomical amounts of debt for yourself and your husband is a poor way of saying “thank you” to a faithful spouse who works hard every day to provide for the family.
Yes, you may not have enough to buy that designer shoes or bag you’ve had your eyes on

LOVE & ROMANCE: 12+1 Signs A Guy Is Not Real

Have you ever given your heart to someone only to discover it was worth nothing to him? Yea, not worth more than a sofa!

He is “crazy” about you…but just in the bedroom!

He won’t always show it the first time he comes around, until he gets what he wants.

Here are 12 ways to know if he is not real! Remember, a gentleman wouldn’t do this!

1.He only compliments your outward appearance. “I’m so attracted to you” “You are so beautiful” “You’re so sexy” “You turn me on”” “You’re so hot”.

The Ultimate Deadline

         The moment a young Nigerian lady crosses from the teenage class to the adult class, there is this sudden awareness of the reality of the outside world and the expectations of everyone around them from them becomes very obvious. They are now aware of the fact that they are no longer children that people will readily take responsibility for but they are now very close to becoming responsible. A ‘serious relationship’ that might probably end in marriage becomes the imminent need. A young lady has to become a woman overnight and the

Tips For Making Your Marriage Work.

Marriage is both a natural institution and a sacred union because it is rooted in the divine plan of creation.  In every marriage the spouses make a contract with each other. Marriage does not just work on its own, the couples must consciously make it work. How? by doing the following :

Prayers :
    It is said, that " the family that prays together, stay together". One of the ancient keys to making marriage and relationships work, is Prayer. Pray before entering into that relationship or marriage. The truth is that, man didn't institute marriage, God did. Who is in a better

Love Keeps Me Awake.

Sleep in my eyes,  but love keeps me up.
My heart is awake to give her attention,
my breath is alive to tell her "I'll always be here for you" ,
my mouth is awake to sing the hymns of the garden birds,

my fingers are awake to forge for her precious gift of admiration for her .
My feet will walk the distance for her while i carry her at my back,
Let her  name be on the walls of the streets,
  Let her name be written on all materials of clothing that her memories will always be   everywhere,

Smile Baby.

Struggling to find something real, yet unreal and impossible to find.
Searching for the impossible in possible places,
finding what are out of this world yet in this world...
I feel it that am close to getting it, yet I feel I haven't even started.

Seeking for true friendship,
pure as the evening lakes,
fresh as the morning wind and sweet as the night dreams,
Like stairs of pure gold is her friendship to me.

Say The Words...

I'LL SAY THE WORDS NOT TO HURT HER,
I'LL SAY THE WORDS TO PLEASE HER,
I'LL SAY THE WORDS TO KEEP HER,

I'LL SAY THE WORDS TO CARE FOR HER,
I'LL SAY THE WORDS THAT MAKES HER GLAD,
I'LL SAY THE WORDS THAT GIVES HER HONEY DRIPPING HEART,
I'LL SAY THE WORDS WITH YOUR NAME WRITTEN ALL OVER IT,
I'LL SAY THE WORDS THAT CAUSES HER CHEEKS TO BLOSSOM LIKE THE WILD ROSE,

She Loves Another.

Am trying to make this right, but am not seeing my paints and brushes to paint your beauty,
I wanna tell my wrongs but my heart is playing tricks on me, but my head sees the picture
clearly but shakes its head at my heart because it allows feelings and emotions cloud it's judgment...
My heart says one thing but my head believes another thing.
Tell me the truth, is there any space for me to dwell in your heart?...
Drowning in the ocean of guilt over wat I have done, it's too late..

Danger! Groups Of People To Avoid Getting Married To.

Marriage is the intimate union and equal partnership of a man and a woman. Marriage is both a natural institution and a sacred union because it is rooted in the divine plan of  God . It's the journey of a life time, where in, Gods original Agenda for mankind, Divorce was never an
option. This is why, before embarking on this ' journey of a lifetime,'  you must make sure it's for the right reasons, purpose and with the 'right person'.
    If you enter into marriage with the wrong person, it's not beautiful, it's not sweet, rather it's filled with bitterness, anger, frustration, tension, fear, worry  etc. There is a popular saying :

Marriage And Relationships Talk : What Went Wrong?

Waking up to a new day,beautiful morning..
With a smile on your face,got up from the bed went on your knee & you prayed.
Walked into the bathroom looked at the mirror and gave yourself that million dollar smile.
Brushed your teeth,hit the shower
came out feeling good.
Ohhh yeah its my day off..

Ran downstairs straight to the kitchen
Prepared breakfast & after breakfast you decided to know what's happening. So you turned on the T.V (great) its the morning news. With a shocking Headline.

HEADLINE: 16 year old girl commit suicide due to the divorce of her parent...

Before You Pull Of Those PANTS

                 
          
                                     

before marriage is one topic that has raised so much dust. Some school of thought are of the view that Sex before marriage is No No,  while to some since the two adults have given their consent to marry, why wait?  Let's have Sex, different positions and styles, doing all the things married couples do its no big deal. This topic has generated a lot of controversies even amongst the religious circle.
  However, God's stand on this topic He made very Clear. SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN. The marriage Bed should be kept Holy and undefiled. Heb 13v4. For God to say No Sex before marriage, then there must be  whole lots of reasons He said so after all, he invented the organs used in having Sex as well as put the urge in man.
In God's dictionary : Sex doesn't equal love, yet it is often mistaken for Love. Though the excitement of the physical relationship is intoxicating, real Love extends far beyond Sex. The
implications of engaging in Sex before marriage are so much that they can't be quantified. 

The physical, psychological, emotional pains and trauma. Take for example :A Young lady, who because she believes that she's engage to a guy, and they go ahead to have Sex., though there are preparations on the way to get married only for the one whom she's betrothed to turn around and say his no longer interested in going ahead with the marriage proposal., what do you think will be her emotional state? I leave you to imagine and conclude.
The main reason why am writing on this topic is because of the latest Trends on the issue of Child Paternity. So the other day I saw a write up with the topic : Help My Wife Just Confessed To Me That Our Only Son is not My child. I also heard another story where The couple have 5 children, one of them became sick, after the diagnosis of what is wrong with t